Towards the end of each year, I take the time to reflect on all the events that occurred throughout the year while I map out my goals for the following year & all I have to say is WHEW! 2009 has been an incredibly amazing, but for the most part, every year is. I looked at my list from last year and I have accomplished each of my top 5 goals I set out to do which included turning pro and actually fighting professionally. Writing down your goals and reviewing them on a monthly basis is extremely powerful!
I get asked frequently what my "secret" to staying motivating day after day and the answer is very basic & simple (just like me) and that is to have incredible FAITH and make up your mind each day to live it to the fullest despite of the obstacles that may come your way. Be optimistic as optimism is essential to achievement and it is also the foundation of courage and of true progress..
I am also a big believer of just being a good person no matter what and doing selfless acts of kindness. Somehow/Someway those beautiful kind acts will come back to you in wonderful and very unexpected ways. Especially when it comes to athletes, Good character is more to be praised than outstanding talent. Most talents are, to some extent, a gift. Good character, by contrast, is not given to us. We have to build it piece by piece-by thought, choice, courage and determination. With that in mind, I am grateful to have met a special person this year who has taught me a-lot about myself & the power of commitment & determination.
Rebecca, is a very special individual I met at school at the beginning of this year who had been struggling with weight issues for a very long time. I offered to train her in April and 6 months later, she ran her first Half Marathon to celebrate her 40+lbs weightloss as well as her 32nd birthday. It was the combination of her will and my knowledge/influence that can make amazing things happen! In the process, we have become great friends and I am thankful for that as well...Next year, the plan is to get her through her first full marathon!!
As this year comes to an end & I start writing down my goals for 2010, I keep in mind that achieving goals by themselves will never make me happy in the long term; it's who I become, as I overcome the obstacles necessary to achieve my goals. It honestly is the deepest and most long-lasting sense of fulfillment.
I also need to add that I am grateful for each and every person who has come into my life (good or bad) as each experience has helped shape my life and teach me valuable lessons. I firmly believe in surrounding yourself with good, positive, healthy and energetic people.
For 2010, just remember that the best way to get something done is to just BEGIN!"Strength is a matter of the made-up mind." Thank you ALL for all your wonderful support throughout the year. I am looking forward to a blessed & outstanding 2010 especially in boxing! Terri, I know we make a great team & we are going to do accomplish amazing things together!
Wishing you & your loved ones a beautiful & healthy Holiday Season! Remember to "Face Your Fears, Live Your Dreams!"
Much Love,
Patricia "Patty Boom Boom" Alcivar
Saint Theresa's Prayer
May today there be peace within.
May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith.
May you use those gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May you be confident knowing you are a child of God. Let this presence settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.
It is there for each and every one of us.
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