The Things that help Me Get through...

It's February and boy has it been a challenging 2014 thus far in every aspect of my life. Although I have not mastered changing my attitude in a snap of a finger, I do know that for me it is a process and a journey. We’ve all had days (and maybe even years) when life just doesn’t seem to be going our way! I’ve had long seasons of life where I felt like nothing was working and everything was out of whack, and I’ve had frustrating days where I just can’t seem to get anything accomplished.

Here are a few things I’ve learned to remember in those challenging seasons of life that have helped me and I hope they help you as well! I believe having a higher power (it doesn't matter what your belief/religion is) is one of the most important things in life.

1. Remember that your Character should always be stronger than your Circumstances

We can’t always control what happens to us, but we can always control how we choose to respond. In those moments when I choose to stop complaining and instead give thanks to God for the good in my life, the parts that seem bad start to seem much less significant. Choose to keep a positive attitude and thankful heart regardless of what you’re going through.

2. Remember that your Struggles always lead to Strength.
Every difficulty in your life, whether big or small, is something that is meant to produce more strength, faith and perseverance. All your pain has a purpose.

3. Remember that God’s timing is always perfect.
God’s plans are almost always different from our plans, but His plans are always perfect! Have the patience to wait on His timing instead of forcing your own.

4. Remember that God will never leave your side.
You may feel like you’re going through this struggle all alone, but have faith that your higher power is by your side to the end so never lose hope!

And, one of my favorite quotes that always seems to comfort me:

“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.” Deuteronomy 31:6


I hope these truths give you the strength to keep going on those days when life is at its worst as they have helped me! 

Patty

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